We get to see the boys

After spending 2 hrs. with the boys father at the therapist on 12-3 we finally got to see the boys with the therapist present on 12-9. It had been 5 months and 9 days since we had talked to them in person. The therapist is court appointed but she seems to be ok. We have been there before and the jury is still out on that. We saw them again at her office on 12-16 for about 40 min. after she had talked to the boys one at a time and then with us and the boys father together. The boys want to come to our house for overnight but their father objects so the will come to spend 8 hrs. with us on 12-26. After that they will start spending more time with us. I asked if we could go to the little boys school music program at school the next day and the boys father said no. I will add more after Christmas.